The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know Read Free

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    For the Taoists, sex is about health, not morality.
    not all women or all men are identical, it was understood that women’s sexual arousal and sexual response often differ dramatically from men’s.
    The Taoists referred to these differences as the result of male and female sexual energy (which they called yang and yin ). We will explain to couples how these energies influence our sexuality and how to use this understanding to satisfy both partners’ needs.
    It is worth mentioning that while the Taoists were primarily concerned with harmonizing male and female sexuality, the practices are equally valuable for gay and lesbian couples. For the Taoists, all people have masculine (yang) and feminine (yin) energy, and they knew it is essential for couples— straight, gay, or lesbian—to harmonize the differences that exist between the partners. In addition, the practices for pleasure, healing, emotional intimacy, and spiritual relationship are equally powerful and important for gay and lesbian couples.

    A New Sexual Evolution
    While many of the Taoist practices for sexual fulfillment and physical health are now over two thousand years old, they remain extremely effective today. Over the past twenty years, since these long-secret Arts of the Bedchamber have started to be introduced to modern couples, there has been a quiet but profound sexual evolution in bedrooms and in relationships around the world. We hope the sexual arts and sexual science that we present in this book will help your relationship as they have helped the thousands of others who have practiced them.
    Before you and your partner can explore the heights of Healing Love, it is important for each partner to cultivate his or her own sexual potential. In Part 1, “Solo: Multiplying and Expanding Your Orgasms,” we fi discuss how both men and women can become multi-orgasmic. Then, in chapter 3, we discuss how couples can expand their sexual energy to experience whole-body orgasms. The ability to circulate energy in your body will be important for the practices introduced in Part 2, “Duo: Sharing Passion, Healing, and Intimacy with Your Partner.”

    PAR T ONE
     

    Solo:
    Multiplying and Expanding Your Orgasms

    CHAPTER 1
     

    Fireworks: Multiple Orgasms for Men

    In this chapter, you will discover:

How to Separate Orgasm from Ejaculation
How to Develop Sexual Strength and Sexual Sensitivity to Orgasm Without Ejaculating
How to Become Multi-Orgasmic
     

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    When a man becomes multi-orgasmic he is not only able to greatly satisfy himself, he is also much more able to fully satisfy his partner.

    Orgasm and ejaculation are different.
    Any man can become multi-orgasmic. It just takes a basic understanding of male sexuality and some simple techniques.* Multiple orgasms are extremely pleasurable and can expand a man’s orgasmic experience. They also open a new sexual world to a man and his partner. For most men, their sexuality remains focused on the ultimately disappointing goal of ejaculating rather than on the orgasmic process of lovemaking. When a man becomes multi-orgasmic he is not only able to greatly satisfy himself, he is also much more able to fully satisfy his partner. Becoming multi-orgasmic is one of the greatest gifts a man can give his partner. It will help women to help their partners if they also read this chapter, so they too can understand this still little known ability that their partners are developing.

    Orgasm and Ejaculation
    To become a multi-orgasmic man, you need to understand some basic facts about your anatomy. The most important fact is that orgasm and ejaculation are different. This is so startling to most men (and women) that we need to explain exactly how they are different. Let us begin by defining orgasm and ejaculation. Physiologically, an orgasm is the contraction and pulsation that most men feel in their penis, prostate, and pelvic area. It is accompanied by an increased heart rate, breathing rate, and blood