Never Satisfied: Do Men Know What They Want? Read Free

women, alcohol, and immorality be found under one roof. And because so many women lack self-esteem and role models of how a man is supposed to treat a woman, men don’t have to possess intelligent conversation or good manners. All he has to do is appear to have money and walk around with enough “Swagger” and the panties come flying off. Usually without last names being exchanged or the use of a condom!
     
    Considering that those women who frequent these establishments are aware of the perpetrating and shallow nightlife, one might wonder, “Why do they continually go back for more?” Well, men have formulated their own ideas; they believe these women are desperately lonely, bored, or simply hard up. Are they right? Most women would probably say no, but actions speak louder than words. Every weekend they pile inside over-crowded clubs wearing tight skirts, heavy make up, and their breasts pushed up to their chins. Their piercing stares and suggestive body language declares, “Tonight is the night.” There is no doubt many of these women, while not openly admitting it, are romantically entertaining thoughts of finding that special man,
Mr. Right
. Unfortunately, this obscure fantasy plays right into the hands of the hunter who will most certainly use it as leverage to get what he really wants, uncommitted sex.
     
    Some women do eventually wake up and realize the club is no place to meet a decent man. After years of putting up with the exhausting and childish games associated with nightlife, they grab their coats and purses vowing never to return. However, this rude awakening is of no concern to the hunter who is confident that next week will bring countless others to take their places. They will be lined up halfway around the block in the cold and rain, desperately waiting to get into the club, like lambs being led to slaughter. And it is from amongst these unsuspecting creatures that the next “other woman” will be chosen. The question is, who will it be, and why was she chosen?
     

Choosing the Other Woman
     
    The attitude of many women is, “Men will lie down with anything with a heartbeat.” That indictment may well be valid if the cheating man is only interested in a one-night stand. However, if he intends on maintaining an ongoing affair, specific requirements must be met, one of which is empathy. The other woman must be willing to accept his current relationship without “rocking the boat.” Most cheating men, especially the married ones, will come right out and tell her the details of his situation. With such a large number of women to choose from, the odds are in his favor. Many women today are so desperate for a man they will accept that he’s married, living with another woman, or has several other women. As one woman told me, “A piece of man is better than no man!”
     
    Sexual inhibition is another requirement. John from Chicago stated, “If the other woman won’t allow me to be sexually adventurous then what the hell do I need her for? I can be bored at home.” His comment is typical of most married men who cheat. The other woman must be willing to do all those things they are afraid or unwilling to ask their wives or girlfriends to do. In the mind of the cheating man, the other woman isn’t held to a high moral standard. The fact that she is settling for a man who is already taken is the perfect excuse to treat her like a whore, which in many cases is exactly what she is. Why should any man respect a woman who knowingly allows herself to be hidden from his wife and the rest of the world? If she wants to play this game then she must play by his rules, and believe it or not, some women play this role for years, giving up the best years of their lives to be put in the second, third, or even fourth position.
     
    Loyalty is another important attribute for the other woman. The cheating man, despite his own infidelity, needs a woman whom he can trust not to “Run The Streets.” If he calls