Never Satisfied: Do Men Know What They Want? Read Free Page B

about how difficult it is to compete for attention when the majority of women are willing to stroll around half-naked and throw themselves at men. And since the majority of men on the club scene are not interested in your IQ, advanced degrees, or the last great book you read, the more provocatively dressed woman wins nine times out of ten! After all, he’s not looking for a lifelong wife to take home to mamma, only a part time hoochie to take home to bed.
     
    Clearly, the nightclub is nothing more than a weekly production specifically designed for play, profit, and perpetrating. The music is loud, the drinks are expensive, and everyone is dressed to impress. So what if many of the women don’t have furniture in their apartment or even an apartment. And who cares if the guy has a 300 credit score or three baby mammas. On this pretentious stage nothing is what it appears to be. When the doors open, the curtain goes up and it’s show time. Unemployed men suddenly become record producers and women on welfare masquerade as fashion models. With all the role-playing and B.S. going on it’s no wonder women complain about not being able to find a good man at the club. Hell, even a so-called good man will step out to briefly forget just how good he is.
     
    However, not all men seek their mistresses and lovers at these “night spots.” Most prefer surroundings that are more comfortable and familiar, a place where they can mix business with pleasure.
     

Fooling Around on the J-O-B
     
    While the nighttime may be the right time, the daytime has become prime time…for fooling around that is. The workplace has become the “hot spot” for infidelity. Every statistic shows that the J-O-B is the number one place where affairs begin, and although many companies have strict policies against fraternizing with co-workers, that hasn’t stopped the avalanche of affairs and inappropriate flirting.
     
    For the first time in American history, female workers represent nearly fifty percent of the work force, occupying every position from secretary to C. E. O. This reality puts men and women in direct contact with one another on a daily basis. In the morning they board crowded buses and trains together. And for eight long hours they work in cramped office spaces, brushing up against one another by accident and by choice. It was only a matter of time before the fireworks began. A cordial invitation to have a quick lunch passionately erupts into an indecent proposal to have a quickie for lunch. All the while, the cheater is getting paid.
     
    There should be no mystery as to why extramarital affairs are flourishing in the workplace. It is the ideal place for the cheating man to meet a woman who is compatible, desirable, and accessible. Unlike the club scene, the workplace allows for a more gradual progression towards intimacy; there is no rush. In this environment the cheating man appears more like a scavenger, leisurely waiting for the slow death of an existing relationship so he can swoop down like a vulture and pick up the scraps of the emotionally torn victim. He is a great listener too, especially if it’s a negative story about the woman’s husband or boyfriend. He appears to be a reliable shoulder to cry on; never realizing the support he really wants to give is in the form of his erect penis.
     
    Workplace affairs are mutually pursued involvements where both parties are generally up front about their marital status and living arrangements. The woman complains that her husband doesn’t appreciate her, and the man swears his existing relationship is on the rocks. However, one or both of them is usually lying. Most cheaters know that honesty isn’t always the best policy. The trick is to bend the truth a bit until the woman’s heart is firmly secured in the trap. How many times have you heard the lie, “My woman doesn’t understand me?” Or “My wife is married but I’m not.” And if all-else fails, he’ll give her his best