the engaged couple, Nono Gabriel sat in the middle surrounded by the whole family, and I sat perched on my fatherâs shoulders and looked down at everyone. That was the last photograph taken of Nono Gabriel, because five days later he died.
Only after he died, during the shiva, the seven-day mourning period, when my mother fainted all the time from crying so much and they had to pour water over her so sheâd wake up, and Nona Rosa kept saying, â Basta , Luna! Pull yourself together so we donât have another tragedy in the family!â and Tia Allegra, Nono Gabrielâs sister, said, âMay he rest in peace, Gabriel. Not only isnât she crying for him, she wonât even let her daughter faint over himââit was just then that Becky found the right time to announce her wedding date. They all congratulated her but said she had to wait a year out of respect for Nono Gabriel, and Becky said there was no way sheâd wait that long, because by then sheâd be too old to have children. And Tia Allegra said, âGabriel, God forgive your sins. What kind of girls did you raise that they wonât even give you the respect of a year?â
My mother, who had come around from her faint, whispered, âThank God sheâs finally getting married. I was worried she might die an old maid.â A fight broke out and Aunt Becky ran after my mother with her sapatos , her slippers, and threatened to murder her if she ever dared call her an old maid again, and my mother told her, âWhatâs to be done, querida . Itâs a fact. At your age I was already a mother.â At that Aunt Becky darted out of the house and I after her down the steps of Agrippas Street until we reached the Wallach hospital graveyard. She sat down on the wall and sat me next to her and suddenly burst into tears.
âOy, Papo, Papo, why have you gone, why have you left us, Papo? What will we do without you?â Eventually she stopped crying, hugged me tight, and said, âYou know, Gabriela, they all say that Nono Gabriel loved your mother Luna more than any of us, but I never felt that he loved me less. Nono Gabriel had a heart of gold and thatâs why everybody took advantage of him. And you, my lovely, never let anyone take advantage of you, you hear? Youâll find yourself a boy like my Eli and marry him and be happy. Isnât that right, my good girl? Donât search right or left. When you meet a boy like Eli, youâll feel the love here.â She took my hand and laid it between her breasts. âRight here, Gabriela, between your belly and your breasts, youâll feel the love, and when you feel it youâll know youâve found your Eli and youâll marry him. Now letâs go back home before Nono Gabriel gets angry with me for running away from his shiva.â
In the end Aunt Becky waited a year until the mourning period was over and only then married Handsome Eli Cohen at Café Armon, where theyâd gotten engaged. I wore a white dress and walked in front of the bride, throwing sweets with my cousin Boaz, Aunt Rachelikaâs eldest son, who was stuffed into a suit and bow tie. Mother and her middle sister Rachelika had picked out my and Boazâs outfits together. They did everything together. When Rachelika wasnât in her house on Ussishkin Street, she was with my mother, and when my mother wasnât in our house on Ben-Yehuda Street, she was at my auntâs.
After Nono died, my grandmother remained in her and Nonoâs house, and every now and then sheâd stop by ours for a visit. Sheâd always come with chocolate and bamblik licorice sweets, and fascinating stories about the time sheâd worked in the homes of the English.
âEnough of those stories already!â my mother would say, annoyed. âCleaning the toilets of the English isnât exactly a great honor.â
And Nona would muster up strength and say,
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