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made of bamboo, rattan, plastic or even stainless steel and provide the sharpest, most focused impact.
    Again, low-cost everyday items can also be used as flogging instruments. You can start by browsing the floral aisle at a craft shop where you will find a large variety of wheat stalks and other bunches of dried grasses typically usedto create home decorations. Different types of plant material—from wild grass to palm—will produce different flogging sensations, and this type of discovery is half the fun.
    Submissives should be restrained during flogging. Because whips are designed for whole-body sensation play, a dominant should blindfold his or her submissive before starting. The dominant can lightly drag the tasselsof a whip down the submissive’s chest, tantalizing the nipples and grazing the genitals before moving down the legs, leaving a trail of goose bumps. This exquisitely subtle but body-racking sensation can be peppered with harder strikes of the whip on the submissive’s torso or limbs. If the submissive’s legs are spread apart, the dominant can slap his or her genitals, gently and then with as much forceas the submissive wants, with the whip’s tassels.

14. Love Bites & Scratches
    Why are vampires so sexy? Because they come to life after dark, dress in black, exude danger and bite those they desire. There’s a reason they’re the “bad boy” fantasy lovers of scores of suburban wives. They know how to get the juices flowing, and they don’t leave their dirty socks in the middle of the living room floor.
    Neck-nibbling vampiresare the ultimate BDSM lovers, too. Many women and men find that the throat area, including the sides and nape of the neck, is an extremely erogenous zone that is second only to the genitals. When stimulated by kissing, this area ramps overall arousal. When bitten, spikes of pleasure and pain course through the body, sending mixed messages of want and fear.
    Sensual biting should be done whenthe submissive is in a partial or full state of arousal, as he or she will be able to tolerate more pressure when turned on. The dominant should switch between quick bites and longer ones and between hard bites and softer ones. Of course, care must be taken to never break the skin, as infection may result. Unlike Dracula, the dominant doesn’t have to restrict his or her biting to the neck area.The dominant can nibble and bite along the shoulders and down the sides of the body. Before biting a female submissive’s nipples, however, the dominant should kiss and gently nibble the areola (the area around the nipple) to arouse the nipple and prepare it for more intense attention.
    Moving down the submissive’s body, the dominant can bite the hip and thigh regions. Biting this area canquickly increase genital arousal as the submissive will soon begin to crave genital contact. The male dominant can gently bite the lips of his female submissive’s vulva before softly nibbling the clitoris. This should be done sporadically, so that the submissive does not orgasm too quickly. The dominant can compound and prolong the submissive’s tortured pleasure by occasionally thrusting his tongueor a finger into her vagina.
    Sensual scratching, technically called amychesis, is another way that a dominant can deliver pleasurable pain to his or her submissive and engage in sensation play. The female dominant can drag her long nails down her submissive’s back and buttocks. The male dominant can use a scratching tool, such as a regular back scratcher, a wire brush or even a rough loofah.He can also use a specialty item like so-called “cat nails.” These instruments are made of twin stainless steel points that slip over a man’s finger, so that he can run them over his submissive’s body. They are particularly effective at stimulating the areola and nipple area and can provide as much piercing pleasure as the submissive can take.
    The ancient sexual manual
Kama Sutra
puts a sensualspin on scratching. It