it doesnât say exactly
how
.â She spread her arms, palms up, taking in the whole expanse of the complex that surrounded us. â
This
is how.â
âMy retirement plan involves booking round-the-world cruises on the
Queen Mary Two
,â I joked, although I was half serious. âBack to back. A beautiful cabin, someone to clean and make it up fresh for you every day, fabulous food, champagne bar, spas and pools, not to mention movies, lectures and Broadway-quality entertainment.â I sighed dramatically. âNow
thatâs
assisted living!â
Safa giggled. âI like how you think, Hannah!â
After a moment, her face grew serious. âMasud realized that sometimes life sends you challenges that are beyond a childâs ability to help, and he didnât want to burden Laila and Roshan.â She leaned forward, inclined her head closer to mine and spoke softly. âMasud has been diagnosed with Parkinsonâs disease.â
I started to lay a comforting hand on hers then drew back, not knowing whether the gesture would be misinterpreted. âIâm so sorry.â
Safa shrugged. â
InshaâAllah.
What can one do? It is early days yet, and Masud has already started medication, so Iâm hopeful. One can live a long time with Parkinsonâs, as you probably know. Look at Michael J. Fox.â
I remembered reading that the youthful
Back to the Future
star had been diagnosed with early-onset Parkinsonâs disease in 2001. Nevertheless, he had worked fairly steadily as an actor since then, and would be back on television in the fall with a semi-autobiographical sitcom. âHeâs certainly done a lot to raise public awareness about the disease,â I said.
âYes, and itâs generous support such as his that gives us hope for a cure.â
âForgive me if Iâm speaking out of turn, Safa, but I think that you and your husband have made the right decision, both for you and for your children.â
Safa nodded in agreement. âMasud brought me here for a visit, we talked to Mr Bennett, the director, and Masud was happy with what we heard. We are fine for now in our town home, but later? Well, the concept of modesty is accepted here, that was of utmost importance to me.â
âDo you mean the clothing you wear? The hijab?â
Safa blushed. âThat is part of it, but more importantly, should I need one, I must have a woman doctor, and, when the time comes, women who tend to me.â
After I was diagnosed with breast cancer, a male surgeon and a male oncologist had pretty much saved my life, so I was glad the Episcopal Church didnât place such demands on its women.
âWhat do you do about daily prayers?â I asked. I knew that devout Muslims pray five times throughout the day. Weâd once had an airport pickup where the cab driver arrived at the crack of dawn and asked to use our bathroom so he could wash his feet before his sunrise prayer. With some pride, heâd showed us the Qibla app on his iPhone which featured a compass programmed to determine the direction of Mecca from anywhere in the world, even the cab parked in our driveway. What would Mohammed have thought of that? I had marveled at the time. I had a Daily Office app on my iPhone, but had only consulted it twice. The cabbieâs devoutness put my half-baked efforts at regular daily prayer to shame.
âAh, prayers,â Safa repeated. âThis was a real plus, especially for Masud. Calvert Colony built a
musalla
, a place where we can practice
salaat
.â She waved a hand in the direction of the gardens, where a modest building that I had taken for an oversized, elaborately decorated garden shed was nestled in a grove of young crabapple trees. âThere are only three Muslims in residence now, and I am the only woman, but two more couples will be moving in as soon as the new block of town homes is finished.â
âI hope you