intercourse that Kurt told them they couldnât get married in the temple unless they waited another three months. And kept their hands off each other until then. Completely off. Kurt hadnât told me specifics about what they had and hadnât done, but it was his right as bishop to determine who was worthy for a temple recommend and who wasnât.
In the end, Perdita and Jonathan decided to go ahead with their original wedding date. They had already sent out the invitations. They would have had to send out a set of cancellations, and then new invitations several months later. It would have been confusing, and expensive. But most of all, it would have been embarrassing. The words âsealed in the Salt Lake Templeâ were embossed in gold on the wedding invitations, but since only thirty or so people were allowed into the sealing roomâthe closest of family members with temple recommends themselvesâfew people would know about the canceled temple ceremony.
âIt smells wonderful, by the way,â I told Cheri and Perdita. The kitchen was filled with cinnamon, ginger, and allspice.
âItâs a kind of post-Christmas theme,â said Perdita. âI love gingerbread.â
âAh,â I said. That explained it. I gestured at the twenty-gallon pot on the stove. âAnd that is?â
âWassail,â said Perdita. Nonalcoholic.
âItâs pretty adventurous, doing it all yourself,â I said. âYou werenât tempted to get caterers?â
Perdita shrugged.
Cheri put in, âWe told them that if they did it themselves, they would get the money we saved to live on.â
âDo you know how much caterers cost, Sister Wallheim?â asked Perdita, her mouth open wide.
âActually, I do.â I had two married sons, and even if Iâd never had to do as much work as the mothers of the brides, I had paid for half the catering to be fair. I also thought it was worth every penny. A wedding was stressful enoughâall the family members coming in, the emotional difficulty of letting go. I didnât think anyone should have to put more on their plate.
Cheri, for instance, looked like she had spent the last two weeks in a clothes dryer. Her hair was frizzled under the curlers she had in, and her skin was worse than the normal Utah winter desert crack.
âWell, we can live for three months on that, if we scrimp,â said Perdita.
I glanced at Cheri, who looked away. I was more and more impressed with Perdita and her good sense. She might be just out of high school, but she knew who she wanted and she knew how to survive. That was more than I could say of myself at that age. I had been a disaster, and had spent six years figuring out how to move on with my life.
âIâll come back when Iâm done with the gazebo,â I said with a nod toward the cultural hall.
âDonât hurt yourself,â said Cheri.
The gazebo wasnât heavy, but it was tricky to put together. I painstakingly put part A in slot B, then part C in slot D. And the gazebo went up. When it was taller than I was, I got some chairs to stand on. I heard a door open and saw an unfamiliar face bringing in flowers.
âThe Tate wedding?â he asked.
âYeah, thatâs here.â
He nodded and carried in several boxes of flowers, then left again.
The silver and gold ribbons were wrapped around cardboard in a pile by the door. I got them out and tried twisting them together and arranging them on the gazebo. I wasnât an interior designer by any means, and my house was proof of that. But ribbons I thoughtI could manage. I poked around in the flower boxes and found some garlands to put over the top of the gazebo, as well. It wasnât going to look like a summer wedding, but it would be nice.
Just as I was finishing, Cheri came in and stared at the gazebo. âThank you so much,â she said. âI really didnât think that was going to