youâll just make it harder for yourself because youâll be so worried you could actually make yourself sick. Find someone you can trust if you need to talk to someone, like your mom, or your pastor, or a friend, or a school guidance counselor. Find some way to relieve your stress. You have your own life to live.
Jordan, 14
Jordan lives on the Canadian Forces Base in Trenton, Ontario. CFB Trenton was opened in 1931 as a base for the Royal Canadian Air Force. It is still primarily an air base, where giant cargo planes take off for war zones, and where soldiers killed in battle first land when they return to Canada.
All three of Jordanâs parents are in the military. He lives with his mother, a corporal, and his stepfather, who is a master corporal. His father is at CFB Gagetown in New Brunswick.
My dad and stepdad have been in the military as long as Iâve known them. My stepfather teaches the new people how to be in the army. He gives a lot of lectures. My mom joined when I was seven. Sheâs an airplane mechanic.
My dad just came back from Afghanistan, I think. I donât see him very often. He came to visit us before he left for Afghanistan. I donât really know why Canada is there.
I have one older brother. Heâs seventeen and he really likes to beat me up. Heâs joking when he does it, though. My stepbrother is eleven or twelve. He lives in Greenwood with his mom. My folks got divorced when I was seven.
Iâm pretty used to my parents being in the military. Itâs weird seeing so many uniforms at one time, though. Every year thereâs a family get-together at the base. Anyone in the military can bring their family into their work area, which is usually not allowed. They tell their kids what they do, and then thereâs a barbecue and games. I saw the place where my mother repairs the Hercules transport planes.
The good thing about being a military kid is that itâs a little more organized around the house. Thereâs less stuff to worry about, less clutter. Before my mom joined there was hair all over the place because she was a barber. Now the house is cleaner.
My mom and stepdad were both overseas, I think in Afghanistan. My stepdad was there long before the war, so it may not have been Afghanistan. My mother was over in United Arab Emirates a couple of years ago. I hope they donât get hurt when they go overseas. I get kind of worried about them. I donât watch the news, but my stepdad turns it on a lot, so I hear whatâs going on.
Before they go overseas they tell us theyâre going and we can state any problems that we think about. We can ask them questions, like why they have to go. Mom said she had to go repair planes so they could fly to Afghanistan with supplies. Dad said he was there to help out.
Mom called every few weeks while she was away. Our step-father stayed home with us. There were a lot more bruises when Mom was gone because he and my brother like to UFC a little too much. UFC is Ultimate Fighting Championship. When Momâs home, she makes them settle down.
We eat more pizza when Momâs away, too. She was gone foraround six months. We didnât get any free haircuts while she was gone! It also got kind of boring around the house because we had to do more chores. When Momâs around, she does a few chores and I do a few chores, but when sheâs not here, I have to do her chores as well.
My favorite things are video games â fighting games where you get to blow stuff up. Theyâre fun. I like going to the pool and jumping on the trampoline. Throws donât hurt so much on the trampoline. My brother throws me all the time when heâs playing at WWE â thatâs World Wrestling Entertainment. Heâs the biggest one in the family. Everyone else is tiny.
Iâve got a lot of friends and I like to hang out with them. We usually just go around in our little community. Thereâs a park across