Dear Know-It-All letters that I had shoved into my pocket. I fished them out and read them. As usual, there were some goofy ones like âDear Know-It-All, I canât get to school on timeâ (Get up earlier?) or âDear Know-It-All, my math class is too cold. What should I do?â (Bring a sweater?) I read the second-to-last one, hoping it wasnât from the last living brain cell in the school:
Dear Know-It-All,
My friend recently asked me for some honest advice and I gave it to her. The problem is that she didnât like the advice, and told me I was wrong, and now is mad at me. Iâm okay with her disagreeing with me, but why did she ask me if she didnât really want my opinion? Isnât it okay to have different opinions?
Signed,
Too Honest
Hmm. Is there such a thing as being too honest? I think of the times that Allie was certainly too honest with me, even though sometimes I actually ask for her opinion. Itâs always annoying to hear something negative. She never misses an opportunity to tell me I need my hair trimmed or cooler shoes, or that I just need to look more like her. But weâre sisters, and if weâre talking honestly here, I never miss an opportunity to tell her when she looks like sheâs trying too hard with too much makeup or supertight jeans.
But friends are different. If Hailey asks me if I like her shirt or if sheâs being too pushy or something,sometimes I tell her the truth and sometimes I donât. It depends on whether I think Iâll really upset her or not. She was honest with me this morning and I guess I needed to hear what she told me, so that was okay. Were there really different rules for when to be honest? Or is it that sometimes you shouldnât be as honest as other times?
Maybe I need to be more truthful. I constantly cover up the Dear Know-It-All column, but thatâs because I have to. I just manipulated Allie into letting me borrow a shirt. If I turn up the âhonestyâ volume, will people get upset? Boy, this is a tough one.
I read another letter in a bright red leftover Christmas card envelope:
Dear Know-It-All,
Iâm good friends with a boy who I like. We do stuff together, but I never know if itâs a date. How do I find out?
Sincerely,
Just Friends?
Yeah, I know a little something about that. Lately, though, Iâve been wondering if Michael and I even fall into that category anymore, since we havenât spent much time together.
âSam! Can you help me set the table?â my mom called from the kitchen. I guess the Dear Know-It-All column would have to wait. I stuffed the letters back into my pocket.
The next day, at lunch, Hailey and I sampled the organic sweet potato fries from the premium table, where we can pay extra to get something healthy. Believe it or not, itâs usually extra-yummy, too, and Iâm talking about things like kale chips, chickpea fritters, and whole-grain carrot muffins. Even Hailey eats it, or some of it, kind of.
âThese are awesome,â I said, waving a fry in Haileyâs face. âHave one.â
âAre they mushy?â she asked, leaning back in her chair, arms crossed.
âJust take one!â
âOh, all right,â Hailey said. She sat up and took a bite. Her face lit up. âTheyâre just like regular fries, only, um . . .â
âSweeter? As in sweet potato?â
I looked up and saw Michael come into the cafeteria. He didnât even walk over to our table to say hello, which he usually does, but sat at a table full of guys on the baseball team.
âIs he ignoring me?â I asked.
âNo, why would he be?â Hailey said, stealing another one of my fries.
âI donât know. No reason.â
âDonât worry. He didnât forget about you when he wrote that story with Austin.â
âI know.â I just wanted to get back to our routine. For the last issue, Michael worked on a
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