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accordingly. A man will always want what he can’t have. When a man meets a woman and she seems nonchalant, it becomes a challenge for him to win her affections.
    Or, if he tries to get a woman to react in an insecure way but she holds herself with a level of dignity and pride, suddenly the dynamic changes. The same guy who was gun-shy of relationships becomes a believer. Now he begins to fantasize about getting the so-called bitch to cook him a meal, fold his socks, or chase him around. But if you
start out
dependent on him, he simply doesn’t value it the same.
    Another mistake that a woman can make is to put herself down. When you’re on a date, you should never talk about the plastic surgery you want to have or the weight you want to lose. Don’t talk him out of a compliment. This is the time to be sure of who you are.
    So, what’s the right attitude? “This is me, in all of my splendor … and it doesn’t get any better than this.” Don’t spend a fortune on a therapist. Just say it to yourself until you believe it. Eventually you
will
believe it, and so will he.
    Humility? Don’t worry. It’s a treatable affliction, a mental glitch. If you catch yourself being modest or humble or any of that nonsense, correct the problem immediately. Go directly back to believing you are “a catch.” Period. End of story. Case closed. If someone else doesn’t like your confidence, that’s their problem.
Why? You always come before they do, that’s why.
    Case in point: Ever hear a man say that all the guys wanted his ex-girlfriend? He’ll build her up so much that when you finally see a picture, you are dumbfounded. What you really want to say is, “Honey, she looks like she had the starring role in
Lassie Comes Home
.” Don’t bother because he’ll rush to her defense: “She looked better in real life.” No sale … try again. “She looked better back then? (Pause.) It was a really bad picture, no, really.” (Still, no sale.)
    What women need to understand is that when a man considers a woman to be a prize, looks have very little to do with it. In the above example, it was a simple mind trick that goes like this: She acted like a prize, and then a funny thing happened. He completely
forgot who he was looking at.
    ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #6
    It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.
     
    The same works in reverse. A beautiful woman can make herself look ugly in the eyes of a man if she is very insecure.
    He pursued you; therefore, he finds you attractive. An understated demeanor and a confident attitude will convince him you’re gorgeous.
    Never assume you are not attractive enough, and therefore you have to overcompensate or chase a man. Taste is subjective. One man’s “ugly” is another man’s “beautiful.” The first date is about looks. When he falls in love, it’s about your attitude. It’s about whether you can hold your own. Which is all about how you hold
yourself.
    ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #7
    Act like a prize and you’ll turn him into a believer.
     
    A woman also demeans herself when she compares herself to another woman. So, don’t let on when you feel threatened by another attractive woman who walks into the room. If you want to make a woman who is a 6 on a scale of 10 look like a 12, what do you need to do? Simple. Act threatened by her. If you pretend not to notice her, he’ll see your confidence in yourself and then he’ll become intrigued with
you
. Then another curious thing will happen. Suddenly she won’t look so good. She only has as much power as you give her.
    A girlfriend of mine named Samantha went on a first date with a man who took her to a local boxing match. In between rounds, as always, there was a sexy, barely dressed stripper who came out holding the round number. Her date looked at the woman and then, in an effort to be a gentleman, turned to look at Samantha. She acted as though she was oblivious as to why he had turned to look at her.
    When the woman came