want to try out for the girls’ soccer team and practice is always after school.” “Really? Well, I guess Aiden will be your escort.” “Mom!” “Wait, no!” “No what, Aiden?” “Why do I have to sit out two or more hours of my life for…” “Aiden!” My mom gave me that “watch it” look; she always could sense when I was about to say something to make things worse. “Okay, wait for Sarah.” “Aiden, you have two options. Wait for her or try out for a team so that both of you are in practice after school together.” “Oh Mom, come on!” “What Aiden? You need to try something new. You’re constantly working out, you’re in great shape, you’re an extremely fast runner, and I think you will do great in sports.” “Mom, that may be true but the jocks at my school are not the nicest bunch to be around.” “Most jocks aren’t Aiden, but you need to start learning how to work with others and to thrive in a hostile environment. You never know when you’ll need those skills. So just think about it; otherwise you’ll be watching your pretty little sister kick a ball around for two hours.” “Oh God no! I’ll look into football then.” “Great! Sarah?” “Yes, Mom?” “I don’t want any games from you, do you understand me?” “Yes, Mom.” After breakfast I sat there in awe when I finally figured out what just happened. My mom for the longest has been trying to get me into sports at school. I’ve always managed to get out of it…until today. I love sports and I play football at the park all the time, but I just didn’t like being around the buffoons on our school’s sports teams. Some of them were bullies and some of the people they bullied were pretty cool. They tried me once and only once during my first year here with the starting senior quarterback. I was only fifteen and while in the lunchroom, Adam the starting quarterback and “head bully of the buffoon squad” cut in the line right in front of me. Okay so what, no problem. Then he kept reaching back over my tray. Now he was pushing it. I didn’t like people too close to things I was going to put in my mouth. After about three attempts of him reaching over my food, I could tell he was trying me, so I politely stepped out of line to avoid a confrontation. With my back towards him he pushed me…hard. He was much bigger and stronger than me but I knew even with his size and strength advantage I could seriously hurt him. So I tried to avoid it; but he wasn’t in the lunchroom to eat. His mission was to punk the new freshman; the attractive and quiet boy that all the girls was talking about. He wanted to make a mockery of me and put me in my place among the bullied. I can take a lot of things but physical aggression is a big problem for me. So after the push I quickly turned and demanded he apologize. I was less than a foot from him, staring directly in his eyes waiting for his response. He smiled and told his crew I had heart and he was going to tear it out of my chest and leave it on the lunchroom floor. I was in my comfort zone being this close to him. Close-quarter combat was always my strong point. He pretended to walk away but suddenly turned intending to push me in my chest and cause me to fall backwards onto the floor. A very old and lame trick—I saw through this from the beginning. I knew he had a reputation to keep up and he wasn’t going to walk away from a “freshie” demanding an apology. Too many people were watching this exchange. While spinning around and reaching out with all his strength to push me in my chest; I quickly and calmly stepped back to my left and placed my left foot directly in front of his shoes. The force behind his missed push paired with my perfectly placed foot propelled him down and across the lunchroom floor. The lunchroom immediately erupted in roaring laughter as they watched the starting quarterback glide across the lunchroom floor on his stomach. Cherry red