children and of the home. And a home, mi hijitas, is not a fine house with great walls and roof, but a piece of the Mother Earth where a woman has squatted down to give birth, and in doing this sacred act, she makes that piece of Earth Holy before God,â added Lupe with power.
âLupe is right,â said Carlota, tears coming to her eyes, âwe had nothing but sticks with mud for walls for our home in Mexico, and our floor was dirt that we swept and watered down every morning and afternoon and polished smooth with the sweat and oil of our bare feet. But oh, what a home we had. The finest home in all the world, because our motherâGod bless her soulâshowed us love and the way to God every day! And our laughter, and our fights; oh, we were poor, but so happy with our love of la familia! â
Carlota couldnât go onâshe was crying so much. There was not one dry eye among all the women in the room.
IN THE NEXT ROOM Salvador was leisurely smoking his long, fat cigar. The husbands of Linda, Gorjenna, and RoseAna were also smoking cigars. But they were puffing on their cigars like a person does with a cigarette, causing their fine cigars to burn too hot and fast. The whole room was filling up with smoke. Victor, Salvador and Lupeâs only son, got up to open the side door. Victor hardly ever smoked, and the smoke was bothering him. Glancing into the next room, he saw that their Aunt Carlotaâs face was full of mischief as she talked to the younger women.
âIâm not joking,â she was saying. âWe women have to know how to get our way with men or we donât got a chance. Everything is organized to their side. Not ours. So the best way for us to get our way is by rolling our eyes and hips like this and pretending to be obedient, but we are not! No, weâre thinking and planning all the time. Itâs hell, I tell you, living with men!â
And as she said this, Carlota rolled her big, painted-up eyes to the heavens and gave such a smile with her powdered-white face as she moved her hips suggestively that the young women were all busting with laughter.
â Tia Tota! â screeched Gorjenna, blushing. âI didnât know you could still move like that!â
âYouâre just terrible!â said RoseAna, wiping her eyesâshe was laughing so hard.
âOh, no, sheâs not terrible! Sheâs good!â yelped Teresita, shuffling her feet and doing a little dance. âAnd roll those hips again, Tia Tota ! Roll âem and roll âem! And keep those joints loose and young!â
Carlota did as her niece Teresita said, holding on to her cane with her right hand and raising her left hand to dance and roll her hips, like a real ballroom sex machine.
âWell,â said Lupe, âI was always very different from my sister Carlota, as all you girls know, so I never rolled my eyes and did those other things to get my way in my marriage. What I did was speak up very frankly, saying what I was thinking, as Iâd seen our mother do with our father. But Iâll tell you, it wasnât always easy, especially when we first got married and I was so young and I knew nothing. And Salvador, like a typical man, just thought that he knew everything.
âAnd why do men think this, God only knows,â continued Lupe. âWhen itâs so obvious, as my mother-in-law, Doña Margarita, explained to me, that it was us, the women, that God entrusted with the carrying of life here in our womb, so He obviously thought a great deal of us.
âI loved that old woman so much,â added Lupe. âI tell you, a mother-in-law can be a great asset to a young wife, if the wife is wise and open-minded, and that mother-in-law knows how to give advice from a distance.â
âBut Lupe,â said Carlota, smiling, âyou have to admit that this is the very reason God gave men such big heads, the truth is that the poor fools are really good