advised her to find a complementary method to help manage her stress: meditation.
His Holiness immediately volunteered to be her teacherâan offer that delighted Serena. âPersonal instruction by the Dalai Lama!â she exclaimed.
âAnd of course you are welcome to join her,â His Holiness added. When the Dalai Lama made such offers, they were never casually intended. âIf we suffer from stress, if we lack peace of mind, meditation becomes more important. For all of us.â
On a nearby armchair, I was following the conversation with interest.
âPain is inevitable,â the Dalai Lama continued. âSuffering is optional. We will all have to endure trauma and challenges. What matters is how we move forward afterward. Do we keep carrying the trauma and its causes in our mind? Or can we find a way to let go of them, to end our own suffering?â
The conversation was starting to have a personal relevance.
âThis is where mindfulness can help us.â
As I turned to observe His Holiness, I discovered that he was looking directly at me.
I expected Mrs. Trinci and Serena to appear in His Holinessâs rooms within days. But a whole week went by, followed by another, and still there was no visit. There seemed to be some kind of obstacle. Surely Serena wouldnât have forgotten? And what possible reason could Mrs. Trinci have for not seizing this opportunity? My own Post-Traumatic Flea Disorder was nowhere near as threatening as a heart attack, but it was still the cause of deep mental agitation, a gnawing concern that I was eager to hear the Dalai Lama explain.
As it happened, I had to wait more than a month before, late one afternoon, Mrs. Trinci and Serena appeared at the main gates to Namgyal. A short while later, the two of them were ushered into His Holinessâs chamber. Ordinarily, his visitors would be seated demurely on one of the chairs opposite him, but these were no ordinary visitors. They were family. Catching sight of me on the sill, Mrs. Trinci immediately came over to where I was sitting.
âOh, little dolce mio !â she exclaimed.
I got up, stretching my front paws out ahead of me with a luxuriant quiver, then arching my back appreciatively as she stroked my neck.
âBut what is this?â
âFlea collar,â said His Holiness.
â Mamma mia, my poor little treasure!â she said as she bent down, nuzzling my head with her face. âHow you have suffered! And how I have missed you!â
âShe has missed you, too.â His Holiness was standing by his chair, observing this all with a smile. âAnd all the special treats from downstairs,â he added with a chuckle.
âDonât worry, she gets plenty of those at the café,â came Serenaâs droll voice from next to him. Serena was co-manager of the Himalaya Book Café, one of my favorite haunts, conveniently located less than ten minutes away.
Once the three of them settled into their chairs, I made my way toward them, eager not to miss out on anything.
âTell me, my dear,â His Holiness said as he reached over and took Mrs. Trinciâs hand in his own, as was his custom no matter who was visiting. He gazed deeply into her eyes. âHow are you?â
Finding herself in his compassionate presence suddenly became too much for Mrs. Trinci. Overwhelmed, she dissolved into tears and had to retrieve a handkerchief from her purse. Through sobs, she explained how much of a shock the heart attack had been. How desperately she had just wanted things to go back to normal. But her doctor told her there could be no such thing. There had to be a new normal. She needed to make changes to her life if she was to manage her high blood pressure and to avoid future heart problems.
From the carpet I studied Mrs. Trinciâs face closely. I donât know whether it was that she wasnât wearing her customary mascara or that she was bereft of her signature
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