water or attractive the tiny decorative castle. âIs she old enough for makeup?â âDo you think itâs wise to let two young college girls go to Europe on their own?â Quite polite people who would never ordinarily make comments about others in public felt entitled by membership in the congregation not only to comment but also advise. âFaith, you seem to be having trouble finding your path, not like Hope. Did I hear she just got another promotion? How about teaching? Youâd be so good with small children.â Or worse, âMy adorable nephew is in town. The one who just finished Harvard Law. I know you two would hit it off.â
Smile, just smile. Think about converting to Buddhism and definitely repress the impulse to hit the speaker.
It was true that Faith took longer to âfind her pathâ than Hope, but Hope had been reading the Wall Street Journal all her life, moving rapidly from Pat the Bunny to The Little Engine That Could and from there to the Dow Jones. After college, Faith had returned to the nest, where she had in fact spent most weekends, and embarked on several months of serious socializing, becoming a regular on the Hampton Jitney. By the end of August, her motherâs unsubtle hints left on Faithâs pillowâjobs circled in the newspaper, a copy of What Color Is Your Parachute? âwere having the opposite effect intended. Faith felt even more lethargic and depressed about her future. She had no idea what she should do. There was no clear path that she could see. The last straw was when her dear father left a copy of Robert Frostâs poems open to âThe Road Not Takenâ next to her place at dinnerâshe was eating at home for the first time in a week and they were having the usual, a variant of a nice piece of fish or a nice piece of chicken and a little salad. Jane Sibley still fit into her wedding dress and the one sheâd worn when she came out.
Faith had been annoyed and embarrassed. âTwo roads.â Great. Yet, as the meal progressed and she listened to her mother talking about the real estate boom and Hope talking about the stock market boom and her father not talking much, but presumably thinking about some sort of celestial boom, she made a decision. She would take the road âless traveled by,â and she wouldnât talk about it. Not yet.
The next day she enrolled in Peter Krumpâs New York Cooking School and talked her way into an unpaid apprenticeship at one of the cityâs top catering firms. Whether they were swayed by her interest or the fact that they thought she could use her influence to get them jobs didnât matter. She was in.
When she mentioned vaguely to her family that she was taking some career courses, they didnât seem to notice that she was coming home dead tired and with the occasional smudge of flour on her face. It was enough that their darling daughter was doing something.
Jane Sibley had always had a housekeeper who dropped off the evening meal or stayed to cook it. And Faith had always enjoyed being in the kitchen with these women, some happier to have her underfoot than others. Over the summer, and even more during the fall, Faith had realized that the one thing she liked to doâthat could translate into a respectable career, that isâwas cook. The brownie recipe with dried cherries sheâd invented when she was thirteen had given way to other desserts and then meals, although her mother warned her not to get in the latest hireâs way: âGood help is hard to find these days.â
So Faith had decided to be the help, and after she finished her studies, went to her parents with her business plan, informing them that she was using some money her grandparents had set up for their granddaughters in a trust as capital. They were taken aback at first, advising that she work for another firm to start, but Faith had quickly realized that the jobs sheâd been