spouses and enjoying it, telling sexual lies, doing shameful things they feel compelled to do out of irresistible desire, making sexual calculations based on social desperationâfew writers have explored suchprocesses more thoroughly, and more ruthlessly. Pushing the sexual boundaries is distinctly thrilling for many a Munro woman; but in order to trespass you have to know exactly where the fence is, and Munroâs universe is criss-crossed with meticulously defined borders. Hands, chairs, glancesâall are part of an intricate inner map strewn with barbed wire and booby traps, and secret paths through the shrubbery.
For women of Munroâs generation, sexual expression was a liberation and a way out. But out of what? Out of the denial and limiting scorn she describes so well in âThe Turkey Seasonâ:
Lily said she never let her husband come near her if he had been drinking. Marjorie said since the time she nearly died with a hemorrhage she never let her husband come near her, period. Lily said quickly that it was only when heâd been drinking that he tried anything. I could see that it was a matter of pride not to let your husband come near you, but I couldnât quite believe that âcome nearâ meant âhave sex.â
For older women like Lily and Marjorie, to enjoy sex would have been a humiliating defeat. For women like Rose, in âThe Beggar Maid,â itâs a matter for pride and celebration, a victory. For later generations of womenâpost Sexual Revolutionâenjoying sex was to become simply a duty, the perfect orgasm yet another thing to add to the list of required accomplishments; and when enjoyment becomes a duty, weâre back in the land of âdreariness of spirit.â But for a Munro character in the throes of sexual exploration, the spirit may be confused and ashamed and tormented, even cruel and sadisticâsome of the couples in her stories get pleasure out of torturing each other emotionally, just like some real peopleâbut it is never dreary.
In some of the later stories, sex can be less impetuous, more calculated. For example, Grant, in âThe Bear Came Over The Mountain,â uses it as the decisive element in an astonishing feat of emotional commodities-trading. His beloved wife Fiona has dementia, and has become attached to a similarly-afflicted man in her care facility. When this man is taken home by his hard-bitten, practical wife, Marian, Fiona pines and stops eating. Grant wants to persuade Marian to put her husbandback in the institution, but Marian refuses: it would cost too much. However, Grant detects that Marian is lonely and sexually available. She has a wrinkled-up face, but her body is still attractive. Like an adroit salesman, Grant moves in to close the deal. Munro knows full well that sex can be a glory and a torment, but it can also be a bargaining chip.
The society Munro writes about is a Christian one. This Christianity is not often overt; itâs merely the general background. Flo in âThe Beggar Maidâ decorates the walls with âa number of admonitions, pious and cheerful and mildly bawdy:â
THE LORD IS MY SHEPHERD
BELIEVE IN THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND THOU SHALT BE SAVED
Why did Flo have those, when she wasnât even religious? They were what people had, common as calendars.
Christianity is âwhat people hadââand in Canada, church and state were never separated along the lines laid down in the United States. Prayers and Bible readings were daily fare in publicly funded schools. This cultural Christianity has provided ample material for Munro, but it is also connected with one of the most distinctive patterns in her image-making and storytelling.
The central Christian tenet is that two disparate and mutually exclusive elementsâdivinity and humanityâgot jammed together in Christ, neither annihilating the other. The result was not a demi-god, or a God in disguise: