person is straight forward. Their position is clear. Their meaning is not difficult to understand. Example: He may not be very friendly, but at least you know where you stand with him.
To get over something: This means that you have recovered from a problem or an illness. Example: I was sad when I broke up with my girlfriend but I got over it after a few months.
Part Two
Suddenly, he invited me to go for a drink with him. By this point he was really starting to get under my skin so I said “ no thank you” but he kept on insisting and eventually I gave in . I know I should have stuck to my guns , but he was being so friendly I started to feel bad about not liking him. Once we were in the bar he started telling me about his life and how he is married to a wonderful woman. I was secretly thinking that maybe her personality had rubbed off on him and that was why he was more pleasant now. When he went to the toilet I thought about making a run for it and leaving him on his own to wonder what the problem was. Then I started daydreaming about payback and all the ways I could take my revenge. When he returned from the toilet I was just about to make an excuse to leave when something very strange happened.
Phrases: To get under one’s skin: This is very negative and describes the feeling that someone/something annoys or angers you and that you can’t stop this thing from affecting you. Example: I know that he is trying to help, but something about his manner really gets under my skin.
To give in: this means the same thing as “to give up”. So it means when you submit or stop fighting/trying. Example: A) Can you guess what I got you for Christmas? B) No, I give in, what did you get me?
To stick to one’s guns: This is when you don’t back down and you stick to what you believe in. Even if someone tries to change your mind you stay with your opinion. Example: I respect people who stick to their guns. I find people who change their minds easily a bit difficult to deal with.
To rub off on (someone): when you are influenced by someone’s attitude or behaviour after spending time with them. Example: After spending a week with such a nice family, I hope that some of that good behaviour has rubbed off on Harry.
Payback: this is used to mean revenge. Example: This is payback for lying to me.
Part Three
Suddenly he started crying! I don’t know why but it completely caught me off guard and I suddenly burst out laughing . I didn’t want to show him up , but I just couldn’t help myself. After a moment I managed to get control of myself and I noticed that he had stopped crying and had stated laughing with me. This of course caused me to start laughing again. After about five minutes we both calmed down and I asked him why he was crying. After a few minutes of beating around the bush he finally got to the point and admitted that he did remember being a bully and had regretted it his whole life. To his credit he did fully apologise, and although we will never be friends I told him that it was water under the bridge . So it was a strange day but I’m glad it happened.
Phrases: To be caught off guard: when something unexpected happens and you feel unprepared for it. Example: She completely caught me off guard when she asked me out on a date. I didn’t even think she liked me.
To burst out laughing: to suddenly start laughing. Example : When he fell into the river, I couldn’t control myself and just burst out laughing.
To show (someone) up: to embarrass someone. Example: He really showed himself up when he refused to help us with the preparations for the party. I mean it was his idea in the first place.
Can’t help oneself: this describes when you can’t control your own actions. Example: Whenever I see chocolate, I can’t help myself, I have to eat it.
To beat around the bush: to be very vague and not say exactly what you mean. Example: Stop beating around the bush and just say it. What do